8/06/03:
ON
THE CATHOLIC CHURCH.
"Divorce
is a grave offense against the natural law. It claims to break the contract, to
which the spouses freely consented, to live with each other till death. Divorce
does injury to the covenant of salvation, of which sacramental marriage is the
sign. Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to
the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in situation of public
and permanent adultery... Divorce is immoral also because it introduces
disorder into the family and into society. This disorder brings grave harm to
the deserted spouse, to children traumatized by the separation of their parents
and often torn between them, and because of its contagious effect which makes
it truly a plague on society."
That, of
course, is Mother Church speaking.
Mother
Church has always informed a lot of my thinking, even though I broke away and
joined the Reformation 28 years ago?an event I still often refer to as
"the greatest day of my life." But, like (I suspect) most former
Catholics, I will never quite rid myself of the feelings of guilt, especially
sexual guilt, that are part and parcel of growing up Catholic. The general
"Catholic hangover" is one of perpetual doubt that God really does
love you, coupled with the knee-jerk impulse to try to make yourself worthy
of God?s love, and of never quite being able to believe that when the minister
says "your sins are forgiven," they are and that?s it.
In short,
it?s a never-ending nagging doubt about the reality of God?s salvation.
But now,
consider this. In the light of the current state of affairs in the Catholic
church?by which I mean, of course, the priestly pedophilia scandal?this
high-minded talk of "grave offense against the natural law" begins to
sound dreadfully hollow. Especially when it has been handed down by cloistered
men who have never known and will never know the joy, pain, frustration, and
compromise of marriage; the thousands of ways even the most well-intentioned of
couples can take a chance on marriage and still find a way to screw it up. My
former Lutheran pastor, who counseled me during my own divorce, said it best:
"Yes, marriage is a divine institution. Unfortunately, it is inhabited by
humans."
We also have
to consider this "grave offense against the natural law" against not
only the priestly pedophilia scandal, but also the Orthodox churches? stance
(and remember that the Roman Catholics are now in full communion with the
Orthodox) on divorce. Taking a stance very similar to my former pastor?s, the
Orthodox allow that, as fallen humans in a fallen world, we may manage to
conduct ourselves less than perfectly within the confines of marriage?even to
the point where trying to carry on with the marriage is in reality damaging two
lives (and possibly more, if children are involved). Certainly this is a more
reasoned, and indeed more Christian, understanding of sacramental marriage.
Much of what human beings undertake with the very best of intentions comes to
naught, or even worse. It is in this sense that we are most often reminded of
the frailty of our human condition and our lack of divinity?indeed, that
"all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God."
So much of
Roman Catholic thought seems to hinge on an arrogant insistence upon
human perfectability, quite dangerous when seen in the light of the opening
statement of the Lutheran confession of sin: "If we say we have no sin, we
deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." It is quite possible to
imagine a marriage that becomes a cause of sin?again, not because
marriage has failed as a divine institution, but because humans are not only
imperfect but are not perfectable. And it is here that Catholic doctrine
contains its most radical flaw. By continually holding an already fallen humanity
up to unreasonabile standards?marriages that must not fail, children
that must be conceived (and to keep the argument simple, I refer here
only to marital coitus), priests that must not be permitted to marry and
so are denied any possibility of (legitimate) sexual expression?the church
guarantees only widespread and catastrophic failure for its adherents (all the
more so since Catholics insist that works and not faith are the primary means
of justification before God).
The priestly
pedophilia scandal is only the latest manifestation of this extremely
unfortunate reading of God?s word. I recently came upon an article by a
priest, gamely attempting to insist that priestly pedophilia is a sin roughly
on a par with an unmarried adult couple?s consensual intercourse. This is such
a appalling notion that it is beneath comment, except to point out that it
shows the desperate measures that must be undertaken in order to prop up
Catholic doctrine when the flaws begin to out.
Catholics
are fond of pointing out that their faith is "ancient"?and it
certainly is. But "ancient" is not the same as
"infallible." Blithely brushing past the Reformation, Catholics point
to the reforms of Vatican II (an undeniably sincere attempt by the church to
address some of its serious problems). But we watch today as these reforms are
rolled further and further back, and the old Roman Church?s bleating about its
own infallibility becomes the answer to every question, every complaint, every
demand lodged against it?often by its own faithful.
For all of
the pain that it entails, the schisms and the widely variant interpretations of
the meaning of God?s word, Protestantism in the twenty-first century continues
to move forward. Meanwhile, Roman Catholicism slips ever further backward
toward a darkness and intolerance redolent of Islam.
posted by Alois 08/06/03
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